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Old Sep 27, 2012, 03:28 PM
Anne2.0 Anne2.0 is offline
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Originally Posted by Antimatter View Post
I left and walked through a beautiful historic neighborhood to get to my car. I am going to be okay. I am going to move forward. I do plan on changing a lot in my life, and I know I will be happy. It will just take a lot of time and patience.

Thanks for listening
I am really happy for you that you have had such a positive experience with this T. I think that talking about the termination with exT will be really helpful for you and for him. I would partly like to see you feel some sense of normalcy for your reaction (as in, it is a legitimately awful thing to be terminated) and I also think that termination is not just termination, it is about dealing with loss and abandonment and betrayal, and those subjects are both universal and ongoing.

You are doing great.
Hugs from:
~EnlightenMe~
Thanks for this!
~EnlightenMe~