Miswimmy1, I am very sorry that your father spoke to you in that manner. That was wrong. No matter what the discussion was up to that point, you did not deserve that. And then, after you left: did he turn off the light at your house? That would just be crushing, soul shattering. If that is what happened: I am so sorry. Know that he has his own issues and that you are in no way at fault for them or for any such cruel actions.

Please remember that you can get support if you are able to post here. Also, when you need someone to talk to, perhaps an additional resource would be to consider calling a youth hotline? The California Youth Crisis Line is at 1-800-843-5200. You can also chat with them, http://www.youthcrisisline.org/