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Old Sep 27, 2012, 08:01 PM
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Everyone has given some REALLY good advice. I think that you have a really great therapist and I don't think she has revoked her being there for you. I think that she is trying to say that she cares so truly and deeply for you, but she can't jump to help you the second you need her. Sometimes it may take longer, sometimes she may not have a chance to respond until a day or two later, but that doesn't mean that she doesn't care. It just means that she is busy trying to keep her own life, family, and commitments in balance too. Trust me, it's better to talk to someone who can lead by example and show you how to maintain happiness and productivity in all aspects of life. She is just one person, and she truly wants you to get better and be your best.

I think the healthiest way to see her is as a non-judgmental friend who tries to help you out as much as she can, but who has to live her own life too. It is AMAZING that you know how important it is to reach out to her to get help, but try not to feel hurt if she isn't as responsive as you want. Just like you, she is doing the best that she can.

You are an absolutely wonderful lady and I don't like to see you like this. It will be okay. You are growing and becoming the amazing person that you are meant to be. There will be rough days (trust me, I still have them), but focus on your health. We are all here for you and love you!!!
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