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Old Sep 28, 2012, 04:31 AM
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Originally Posted by Pfrog View Post
I, for one, am glad that you are respecting your own boundaries ... !!!

Good Job!



I also have difficulty with groups, and it does limit us to an extent ... But, I think it's most empowering to not accept that we have to settle for something that isn't a good fit for us ... That, too, is healing in its own way ... Whether we realize it at the time or not ... !!!
I am really going to miss them. It was going to be my "practice ground" for human interaction. But no. It's not a good fit. It doesn't feel safe. Being called a drama queen, being sat so close to by men I don't know, etc. Feels like I am in another abuse situation, even though that woman assured me that I was safe there. I told her I did not feel that way.

thanks,

Carol
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