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Sep 28, 2012, 04:50 AM
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Member Since: Sep 2012
Location: Georgia
Posts: 1,536
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Originally Posted by lost84
only 2 of the above dont apply. the stealing and sex obligation. but the rest is like my relationship in black and white, i dont know wot to do or how to do it, im scared to do this i just cant talk to him, im up another night with my 5 month old, whos teeyhing and full of cold, im full of cold and tired and he wont help, hes jst kicking off telling me to deal with the baby. ive removef myself from the drama so me and my 5 month old have just got into bed with my 4 year old, hes gone bak to bed like its nothing. i feel so drained i feel like i dont even have 5 mins away to myself, just having a shower is me time but most time im hounded at the door to hurry up after not even 5 mins coz the baby is crying. i feel like u can only talk to u guys  |
 I have been there. It is hard to stay and hard to go. But honestly, once they star abuse of any sort it does not go away. It will most likely get worse. You don't want your children to think this is the normal family life. Because really it isn't. You don't deserve this treatment and your children don't deserve to be around this type of behavior. I am sorry. I do know how bad it is. How scary it is. How you hope he will go back to the old ways, to the man you fell inlove with. Being without a job may have triggered this type of behavior from him. He can't stand to have you paying for everything, that takes away some of his control. Not only of you, but of himself and life in general. See if he will go to counseling with you, Maybe that would help some. At least he would see that he is hurting you.
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