I agree that you are foing to have to anpproach them calmly and with maturity. That way they will listen to you. Have you been to the foctor about your depression and self injury? Do you see a therapist? If you see a therapist, then you can get it set up where you have family counciling. All of you would benefit from that. Try posting in our forums, you can get some support that way and that will help you overcome real life obstacles. Wishing you the best.