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Originally Posted by dubblemonkey
thats just the thing...I don't "see" myself...I just "think" and "feel" myself.
so I wondered just how accurate this all was...because I only get a real sense of other people by how they move ...how they move their eyes their bodies their suggestions...expressions....and
just want to be more comfortable in my shape..insecurity is more paralysing when I don't know who I am
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I think we all think and feel our way, sight is less about seeing, it's just our way of manouvering through this middle world, after all our eyes just take a picture and send it to the mind to sort out. Just like all our other senses.
It's probabaly as accurate as you perceive it to be, to you, and you alone. Seriously now, ask anyone " who are you ?" , most people will reply with " ummm..." , " well... I'm..." . The more we ask ourselves who we are, the more we might admit, that we don't even really know.
Sometimes I find a lot of comfort, in simply not always knowing, and accepting that we really don't know too much.
But how can you feel comfortable in your own shape? Maybe accepting that what you think your shape is might not be reality, and what shape you are doesn't really matter, you are just how you are, maybe that might help I dunno, helps me tho.