Oh dear EJ, I just read this. I agree with the previous posts... Your hubby seems a tad controlling, to say the least, if you can't even send your own resume. Unless I am putting the cart before the horse.

I am also quite concerned with the following: </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
EJ711 said:the minister was concerned about my staying in this relationship for too long if it only continues to becomes worse.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Why would your minister be worried if there were no grounds to this?? Is that because you can't be safe within the relationship? Please, you have to take care of yourself and if there is any form of controlling and/or abuse going on, you’d be better off removed from this relationship. Especially if your husband is not willing to change/improve.

Best wishes to you!