I honestly love a overweight man. Who knows. Maybe a fetish but I think if you possess your great personality and just work your thang confidently, everything will fall into place. If he's turned off, we'll that's his problem. Might hurt but he just isn't good for you then. I've been up and down so many times through the years and i worked the confidence (even if I faked it) and the guys didn't run. Use that passion word I love. Am I going against what other people said? Uh oh.