I am really upset and confused right now, I mean I was just starting to real feel comfortable with who I am for the first time in my life. I was just accept my sexuality when t threw a spanner in the works on our last session. T said maybe you are not gay button, it appears to me that you crave closeness around other female's because you were neglected by your mother, she said based on evidence she has compiled from observations of gay female clients they all have the same problem, they were severely neglected by their mom's. She said there have been no studies on this it was just her own theory.

Now I am more confused than ever, I feel like my identity has been taken away again. T said because I kept saying if I could be any other way I would that this is because I still doubt myself! She said that once a gay comes out they start accept themselves but I can't and I refuse to accept myself because she thinks I am lying to myself!