I'm getting married in four weeks and I have turned into a bridezilla. The manic in me is a DIYer and wants it all her way. The Debbie Downer in me mourns my single life and a last name that I feel is unique. My poor fi wants to be helpful and I just keep shutting him out for dumb reasons. I have no idea what to write for my vows. I say I can change but I don't think he believes me anymore. I'm beginning to doubt it myself.