I did think myself it was something to do with abuse as all other gay women I have met have been abused. I am not sure why I am gay, I don't even want to be gay but I can't help it. I was excited by the notion that T had that I wasn't gay and for the first time in years I could see into the future, I could see a reasoon to be here but now I am not so sure about T's theory anymore judging by all of the information on this thread. Thank you everyone for sharing your thoughts. I just wish T could have saved her observations for herself.
I am in two minds on if I should ring her or email her now and say I am confused and angry