Thank you Always for replying.

I do feel, I must do something to provoke this.

Surely noone can MAKE you feel anything not even depressed, he tells me that is within me. I can feel depressed about the things he says but he can't MAKE me feel anything.

It is so tough as he has just been accepted into one of the best schools in the country to train to be a pyschotherapist. He had so much intellect in this area, I have studied this too but he is very good at countering any argument I make as to how I feel about the things he says and then I end up angry, which is an emotion I am so out of touch with and utterly child like in situations of conflict.

Thank you again

xx