I love this question, interested to hear the responses...
Can't think of anything particularly unusual we've done... we took a walk one time.. and she kindly (and bravely!) offered to come with me for a drive so she can help me with confidence and getting used to motorways - but I haven't taken her up on that yet.
I think there's something in the wishing to share in everyday simple tasks and events - like CantExplain said, the unloading of the dishwasher. I told my T I'd thought how nice it would be to help her with the gardening or cooking dinner. I'm not green fingered at all, and don't cook, but I think it's the idea of her being a nurturing presence, showing me how to do these things, as a mother might. I guess also the idea of doing something casual and real, and seeing the therapist outside of the office, getting a glimpse into their world? I don't know.
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