dear wi fighter.

thank you for your response, and your experience of the grandiosity of you ex makes the hairs on the back of my neck rise up, thank you for telling me that.

i feel guilty to assume its all him, i cannot accept that any experience is all one sided. at the same time part of me wants to know also it is all him and i'm an innocent victim but from everything i have learnt about human interaction i know thats not likely,

your message gave me hope that even if i have experienced several troubled relationships its not a endless pattern i have to repeat, thank you so much for that.

xx