My therapist is the sweetest man and I have been seeing him for almost a year now. His sessions are always supposed to be 1 hour. I am his last appt on thurs night from 8:45-9:45 pm. He always goes over like at least until 10:05 or more. I can never see the clock so i never know when its almost 9:45 to try to stop so i just leave it to him when ever he wants to end. When, I walk out and see I went over every time i feel guilty and want him to stop on time. I always thought if he minded he would stop. Is this normal? Even if it is normal I don't want to feel like he is doing anything extra for me and i "owe him" or something. I want to come for an hour and pay for an hour. I also secretly like that he goes over i feel special but at the same time i just feel conflicted. Sometimes if he sees me he will take me in a couple min early? I usually dont come in until the time so he cant take me earlier. And its like the one or two times he was in a rush and ended on time i felt a little angry at him but i know i wouldnt if he ended on time every other time.
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