So i will probably get slammed yet again, but, i am going to another country to visit my t next week because she is still gone ( for the past year) and i miss her too much..were going to visit lots of places.
We also( when shes home) go on walks, paint each others nails, go out to lunch/ dinner/ etc (she usually buys, but shes got more money than i do), do each others hair, she came to my house, we have the same doctor, her dog lives with me, our sessions are 3-4 hours long, we say i love you all the time, have parties and presents for each other a lot because we need breaks from all this trauma work, geez i dont know what else but shes must an unconventional person.

I am notspecial though. She would do this with any of her clients-- she is just very loving and out of the box, so i am sure that most/ many of her clients get to have these things with her-- not just me