Farmergirl--I don't question his love. I actually feel he does love me. He sticks around. He caught me in a affair years ago and wouldn't let me go. Ive kicked him out twice and he begged to come back. I took him back out of sympathy and probably security I honestly am tired of his lack of affection. I do want to be spoiled and I get NOTHING from him. No little gifts or passionate kisses. Just a quick "peck" and that's it. I wanna be swept away into bed. Be made love to like two wild animals eating each other up. Lol.