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Old Sep 29, 2012, 10:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Passion222 View Post
I felt completely down and out last night and decided to put something on the table to my husband. Please tell me your opinion on this discussion from last night. I asked my husband last night to tell me why he loves me. He said "I just do". I asked "but why, can't you name any specifics?" He asked"what is this?? Why do I have to tell you?" I responded"you don't know why. You can't even make me feel wanted with anything. This answer is not acceptable". He was so mad at me because I cried hysterically trying to understand where he comes from. I told him he is emotionless, unromantic, unaffectionate and I crave Love. He turned it around and I was the bad guy. He said "you always gotta start ****. Why can't you just accept things? Nothing is good enough". I said "I can't accept life with no love". He literally shut off. Put up the wall and it WILL NOT be discussed again until I lose it with a outburst like that again. Was I asking too much?

Some how i feel Ive missed an important part of your post. Forgive me if my answer seems one sided. im responding to what could have made the situation better for the both of you. And i realize its practically normal for us women to want to randomly quiz our men from the heart