Thanks Anika. I'm getting alot of dif opinions which I appreciate. I agree it's important to be open with each other. Id like some communication. Just something. When I'm frustrated the questions blurt out. Almost like I'm petrified of his anger. I know he will argue and that's all I get. I only bring up these kinds of things maybe 3 or 4 times a year. Just want a little emotional or romantic conversation. All we talk about is the kids or work. I'm so outgoing and have tons to say. He drowns me out all the time. Like he's in his own world and I'm not allowed to rock his world in any way shape or form. Literally. No exaggeration on this