So my situation. Im 28 and in a fantastic relationship with honestly the girl of my dreams.

We met my random chance and right from the beginning I knew there was something special there.

At first we shared alot of details about our pasts, nothing too troubling. I found out that her room mate(whos male) and her were friends with benefits up until I came around.

She hid that from me until it ate her up and she confessed. I was kind of pissy with the situation as I thought it was just weird, she was constantly telling me on how ugly he was, and how undesirable and yet she was sleeping with him.

Ive also found out that she slept with her neighbor ( who I never have seen) but whenever Im around it kind of annoys me, that constant reminder of her with guys before me. On top of that I found out that she slept with a friend of the family whos around for every single family event, and apparently has said terrible things about her, winks at her from the accross the room when Im not looking, other immature things. There was also a time she asked me to check her email for a message, and while reading through her email message which she told me to do I read her talking about how joe was so good in bed, and etc etc etc. She felt like a total bag of garbage, and forgot all the bad stuff was in there, but it was just another thorn.

The kicker was when I found out that she was using hookup sites to have sex with random people.

I am NO angel, but I always beleived in the rule " Dont crap where you eat" so she never has to be around people Ive dated, or had sex with, and it just annoys me of her past decisions.

Now hear me out. I wanted to vent and get that off my chest, and my question is this. Am I completely insane to be affected by these things, would it bug a normal person when they are constantly around people that have had sex with their girlfriend? I love her to death, and know I love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her.

How do I feel better about this situation, Im confident in our relationship, its just the small petty immature details are eating me up, and I want it to be fixed.

I found this forum through searching online and saw that there are therapists on here that answer sometimes, Im really hoping theres one around that would like to tackle this train wreck of a situation.

Thank you