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Sep 30, 2012, 01:31 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
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Well, I'm no therapist, but look at it like this. You'll probably be taking her places that you're familiar with -- who's to say you won't run into one of your old sex partners? Are you going to tell her about it? What if it's one of your old girlfriends? Obviously one or ther other will come up and "greet" you, right? Women just love to do that when a guy is with another woman.  How is SHE going to feel about THAT?? Do you want her feeliing the same as you?
Even if you don't take her to a familiar place, you're BOUNDt to run into some old girlfriend/sex partner somewhere, sometime. The world isn't that big.
Sounds like you're holding these against your girlfriend. You've got some "forgiving" to do or whatever you want to call it. Get rid of the resentment or the baggage or whatever and get on with your life. If you really love her, it shouldn't matter. Hugs, Lee
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