Nightsky...I have been more of a lurker here on PC as of late and not responding to very many posts. Several people here have given you good advice and I am not going to parrot previous information. My heart hurts for you; that you are still dealing with this. I look at my T as someone who is on my side and if that was ever threatened, especially by another client, I'd be in shambles.

Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. My prayer is that you will remain strong and that this can be worked out in a way that is best for you. Many hugs.