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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
So is there a difference between T's being frustrated with us and wanting to quit with us? Is there the same difference with us? Does a rising of negative emotions mean we want to quit?
How do we know if they are useful emotions to work through or if they are telling us to get out as we are done with that T?
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Let's just rely on T to say "Hey I think we are done working together, here's a list of other T's in the area" to determine if they don't want to work with you anymore.
The negative emotions are probably a result of your feeling close to your T and not liking it so the emotions are your defense (at least they are for me) to keep t away from me.
My T says I need to work through it and allow the attachment to develop bc that is where the healing is.
It is hard. I want to flee on practically a weekly basis.