lonlely and frustrated, in re to thelmas quote from ble oyster cult. there is anothr cult lyric you shoud hear , I AM A VETERAN OF A THOUSAND PSHYCIC WARS. the games and wars we play with our selves are the most devistating. to be direct, our sufferage is our own doing. take heart , you are the only living structure like yourself you are unique in every detail. there are no other you. remember how wonderful you are.andhow you have made it this far with mostly your own desire to do so. you are forgetting that you are a pro at this life. your answers are already in you.