I can totally relate to what you're going through. I love my husband so much, but I'm terrible about budgeting for our bills. I often worry he will leave me because he has had enough. A few things I did was put my debit card in a lock box, so I have to use cash. Pay my bills early - late fees will add up in a hurry. I shop at consignment stores for used clothes, and Aldi's or Wal-Mart for food.

A great website for you to read is http://www.stretcher.com/

Peace & Hugs,

TnT