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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
How common is it for us to experience counter transference as a result of T's stuff?
I am thinking of quitting T - maybe this is my stuff, but what if it is T not wanting to work with me that I am picking up on? So it seems like something I want (to quit) but in fact it is T that wants to quit.
Just wondered.  |
Before we had a bit of a rupture i was sensing that T was p'offed with me, that she was being impatient and everytime i asked her if that was the case she denied it. Yet i felt a change, which i interpreted as annoyance and her moving away from me. During the rupture it transpired that she was very worried for me and worried that she wasn't doing a good enough job with me and that's what i was picking up.
I think you need to speak to her about what you are picking up from her and get her to be honest about how she is feeling about what's going on cos chances are it's not what you think.