thank you to those who read this post and kept on topic and heard the reason why this issue was raised. most appreciated.

as for the rest? cannot say it feels very helpful to have had this thread hijacked and the comments inserted. for now please start a new thread for goofiness and leave this to original topic if you would be so considerate.

thanks and goodness me oh my what a thread to come back to after a long day. fayerody we're deeply indebted for your clarity and ability to express WHY this would be hurtful and not necessarily something supportive at this site. guess our words were not adequate this morning after seeing what we came home to.

siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh.