It sounds to me like your T is having a lot of trouble dealing with the end of your relationship, too, so this whole thing has to be rough on both of you.

Do you have it in you to try another T interview marathon? I know how exhausting this process is, though - why can't all Ts just magically be a 'good fit' for us?!?

I want to tell you to just see the T you like with the sliding scale, but if you're anything like me, that fee could be an obstacle in the burgeoning relationship.

Your advice has been incredibly helpful to me in the past, so please keep sharing here!