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Originally Posted by doggiedo
That's a good idea. What's the worst that could happen?
He breaks up with me > I look like an idiot to family and friends b/c yet another relationship didn't work out > I am single, yet again > I don't get married and have children > I have no friends and no social network > I am alone.
Yuck. That stinks.
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No no no! That doesnt mean that breaking up with one boyfriend will end up like this.. It would just be one boyfriend, not the end of all possibilities or the end of the world!
Please learn to relax, as I said in another post, worrying about something that may never happen is pointless. And worrying about something that might happen is pointless too because your worrying will not change anything.
You can not make someone like you by worrying, nor can you not stop them breaking up with you. But you can listen to his words and trust what he says. Please please, learn to relax, to trust (which is what this really boils down to I think) and enjoy the moment. Life is full of ups and downs, which makes trying to enjoy the ups even more important.
Give your new, lovely, wonderful relationship a chance and remember that its not him holding all the cards, but that he's darn lucky to have you :-)