((((Soup)))) right now it may not feel like you want to go back to see and finish things with t1 ... and I can understand that; but I think t2 asking is a lot more to do with you - wanting this for your own healing, wanting this for your own growth, wanting this so you don't keep feeling guilty or playing the blame game when you don't need to. It's wonderful the new T seems so much better suited for you; but after 2.5 years I hope you do that one final session (pre-warn T by email that it's a final if that helps?) but from reading others experiences about closures after long term therapy it seems to be better than going stone cold