{{{{{{{{{{{{{{ZH}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I'm so sorry you didn't get the validation that you needed! I admit that I am one of the offenders and I'm truly sorry.

It could be possible that some of us feel overwhelmed with the differences of opinion being stated about almost everything and the extent to which they've gone. I for one, use humor as a coping mechanism.

It seems to me that you were looking for validation and maybe a soft place to land and you didn't get that. Could you help us out a bit on the real reason so that we can give you what you really need?