Hi Bathony

Your mum sounds well, evil. Are yoiu an adult now? Can yoiu get away? Move out? There is a good book called Toxic Parents by Susan Forward. You may find it describes your mother very well. Are youi seeing a therapist??

I strongly disagree with Leed. Leed in Christianity you can judge someone by their behaviour. If someone is abusing you, you have a right to judge them since they are hurting you. And on that judgement you have to take measures to protect yourself such as going to the police, moving out or finding a therapist, etc. I find that attitude very disempowering to say to Bathony. So it is wrong to tell Bathony not to judge because then she wont' do anything and allow her mother to continue to abuse her and put her life through hell!!

Bathony get in touch with your feelings, your feelings protect you but you really need to get support by seeing a T ASAP!!