Hi again,

I posted last week or so about my boyfriend and a fight we had that his Mom became involved in and I wanted to follow up. We are still having problems.

Either his Mom backed off or was still so upset that she didn't want to see me because I left them alone for a weekend and the following weekend she didn't visit and we got to spend the weekend alone. It was aweeeesome!!! To me a wonderful compromise! Anyhow, the weekend after that my boyfriend and I spent an amazing four days on vacation and had a wonderful time complete with many sunsets and romantic moments. This past weekend I was traveling for work and was too tired to make it down to see him.

So today, he won't answer my phone calls and will only text me. He says he wants a month off for us to both decide what we really want... which of course is ridiculous to me as I decided two years ago to be with him. The only reason he seems to give me for this break up is that I didn't visit this past weekend. He seems to think that it means that I was partying and lied to him about my plans. I'll admit, it was a last min decision not to make the drive to his house but we talked about how that might happen if I was too worn out earlier in the week.

What is going on here? How can someone go from a romantic vacation to a break up so quickly? The change in his personality from just a few days ago to now is dramatic to say the least. And the controlling tone to the whole thing has me a little freaked out. He said something along the lines that I was not ready for marriage because I expressed to much "free will".