Going through my feelings about my ex's love to wear women's clothes. When he first told me, I didn't think it was a big deal. Then everytime I would go shopping and he would come along. Everytime I found something I wanted to try on, he would call me over to the size that he wore and take all my attention until I didn't have anymore time for me to shop for clothes.

He would buy women's clothes for himself (the whole nine-yards) from panties to bras and panty hose and mini skirts and lacy tops. He started wearing these things all the time at home. Even though the clothing laid nicely on him, somehow the effect was like him making fun of women or deameaning them. A lot of people say men wear womens clothes because they are more comfortable... uh, when was the last time wearing a bra and panty hose was more comfortable than not? At one point, he tried to figure out how to make love to me while not having to take his panty hose all the way off (like I was an inconvenience). This was the point where I told him he was a freak and to find someone else who doesn't care what you look like.

I started hating him for wearing womens clothes all the time and also wearing my perfume all the time...stuff's expensive!

I really tried to love this man as a person. Although I hail as a lesbian, I have never had this issue with the other women I have dated. I dated him because he seemed gentle and confident. I found out too late that these came from his incompetence with women and his low self esteem.

Anyone have a similiar experience? Please tell me I'm not alone in this as I feel like I just dated the freakiest man on earth!