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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna
So there is shame associated with crying? Maybe start by breaking down the Physical walls ( the stuffed animals and pillows ) and that will lead to the mental defenses. Its ok to cry in session...Hell I think that T's thrive off it....from what I read its how things work.  Don't be afraid T wont hurt you. |
(copied from other thread, don't want to hijack)
And in answer: yea I guess there is shame in crying. It indicates lack on control. When I first broke my ankle I did lay on the couch uncovered, but for whatever reason now...I feel unprotected and I can't do that anymore. I feel like I have rolled backwards away from her, further even than day 1 when I first met her.