I swear I can literally relate with everyone of you. I've done what each of you regret. I do agree its hard to completely regret a bad marriage because our children and other great people come out of that. I have gotten us into financial distress. Bought 30,000 timeshare with in Grand Cayman cuz I was do drunk that I thought it just sounded good at the time. Bought a new car we couldn't afford but figured a way to and thank God my teenage daughter has it for college. Lots of vacations that were wayyyy beyond our financial means. Of course have multiple lovers through the years but learned how to really love and have had amazing relationships in the past even if I was married. Yes the tattoos are the only thing I hate cuz I have way too many but my daughters tell me they love my tattoos because they're telling the story of my life. My husband hates them. Doesn't believe in tattoos. He's never really made me feel pretty in any way. One tattoo says "passion" (go figure) lol, A butterfly is flying toward the "passion" which is in flowers. I have Mandarin Chinese down my back that sucks cuz I got drunk in Florida and just looks dumb. Says "strength", "lust" and "serenity". I have old Hebrew on my ankle that says "I Am What I Am". I think it says that. Hebrew cuz my name is Rebecca and its Hebrew but I'm really Polish. I have a four leaf clover down yonder area. Honestly meant I needed luck in my love life I have"Dream" on my wrist. And a unicorn head with a rose in its mouth for my mom. Her name was Rosé. Unicorn for me being young when she died She died when I was 19. There's another on right shoulder for my dad when he died with a Scorpio M sign in clouds with a musical note and angel wings. My dad and I had same bday and he sang to me all the time and he's my angel. Did colors in red white and blue cuz he was a military man and love America. I have a flower tramp stamp that has no meaning but like to one last time put 222 somewhere in the tattoo for meaning. So there's my story. Oh yeah and to get free tattoos, I'd have sex with the tattoo artist. This is all before my meds. I can't for the life if me figure out where my brain was!!!!