Aw, so sorry u feel this way Hun. The next time she tries to give you a pep talk, do you think you would feel comfortable telling her that she is a great friend but for now you just need her to support you by listening and giving you a hug every once and a while.

So here is something you might be able to relate to your situation...I watch the tv show Parenthood, which is a really great drama. The mother was diagnosed with breast cancer and her husband was trying to stay positive and telling her she shouldn't be thinking negatively, etc. She finally broke down and said she just has to be able to "feel" sad and be upset. She just wanted him to listen and to be there for her. He was happy she said something because in the long run, that's all he wanted to do, too...was to be there for her, in whatever way she needed him to be.

I hope this helps. Hugs to you!