Hello, this is my first posting here and don't want to take up too much space here. I think I may have avoidant personality? Um, would help if I went to therapy but I'm tired of being quizzed and quizzed, asked and asked...I'm tired of telling the story of my life without getting any real reasons. And the answer I want is: is there hope for people who have avoidant personality? I do have Asperger's for sure, and have wondered for years if I had avoidant personality..I fit the bill 100%. What tips can help? Can people fake happiness?? Life isn't terrible, but it does get lonely. I don't even dream about relationships anymore..

thank you.