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Originally Posted by karebear1
Wow CE! those are some big recognitions! How strange it must feel to have praise and blame.I was pretty much only blamed for things, so the idea of being praised is inconceivable to me. Nuetral would've been nice.
I understand the idea of anything other than glorious , jumping up and down praise as seeming like it was criticism to you. What an extreme for a kid to ahve to read though!
I don't really see a judgemental side of you, but I do see a very supportive side to you. It's one of my favorite things about you here on PC.
My T is wonderfully soft with me and I so appreciate that baout her. How is your T not soft or too hard on you?
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Thanks, Karebear! Thanks for understanding. And special thanks for rescuing my post from page two - I thought it was going to sink without a trace.
I have had softer Ts than this. But T's hardness can be attractive too.
As T points out, I've surrounded myself with soft people (soft wife, soft boss). Maybe I need a hard woman in my life?
I just wish she would be softer when I need it. In times of crisis, she gets
harder, or at least it seems that way to me.