Do you have any updates? Any encouraging developments?

I don't have any helpful advice unfortunately, but I feel like I'm on the same track as you, just a few months behind.

My wife, out of the blue, just said she felt like we were growing apart and she didn't feel as connected to me anymore. That was about 2 months ago. See my post in the Relationship forum: "She's falling out of love with me" for the full story.

Yesterday morning she said almost those same words you dread to hear. "I feel like I've fallen part way out of love with you". Crushing, even though it implies some of the love remains.

It's so confusing right now... she doesn't feel as connected to me, she said she's not comfortable having sex with me any more, but she still also says I'm the love of her life and she can't picture a future without me.

Yesterday after I got home from work she wanted to cuddle on the couch, and we still kiss, and she still says the words "I love you". I just don't know how to feel about this or towards her right now. I still love her as much as I ever have, but at the same time her attitude towards me has shifted so suddenly and so drastically, that I don't feel entirely the same way about her... it's like she's turning into this other person, not the same woman I fell for 11 years ago.

So I don't have any helpful advice, but I wanted to say you're not going through this kind of thing alone. I'm very scared, confused, and hurt by this change in my wife's mood towards me. I can't imagine just falling out of love with her... ever. I can't believe she can do the same to me.