Firstly thank you for pointing out the difference. Was more on here other advice and to just say more thoughts!

Yeah he has chores etc, he was to do the dishes, and tidy his room, bring down his washing, I know he is at coming of age, I just find it hard dealing. With his attitude some times. And getting him to do them small chores. He is still grounded from Saturday, he is driving me crazy I'm the evil mother because I won't let him go out and play and enjoy his freedom.

And again my daughter is again it terrible twos, she's finding herself learning right from wrong. But she always can I have a biscuit, can I have a cheese, I need to go to loo then she needs to go to loo, no it's bed time she don't want to go to sleep, and some times I have to leave her crying for a bit. Just so she will tire more.

It's just normal kid stuff I know, and I also I know there are a lot naughtier kids out there.
I just get stressed sometimes.