hey I just say my 20-yr crunch for the first time since my cerebral event, in the elevator. fortunately for me, another friemd got in at the 8th floor and she asked me some real questions - at least she knew how to ACT. at this stage in life, I don't think that's too much to ask. I think maybe people who insist they don't know how to ACT, have something they need to apologize to YOU for, and they're not doing it, and they are putting it all on you, cuz they think you are better and stronger somehow, and frankly, this is the only way to undermine you. hankster's words of wisdom for the day.