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Old Oct 03, 2012, 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Rose76 View Post
Last night I just cried. My S/O had yelled at me on the phone because he got annoyed with me bawling. I get so disappointed when I turn to him for understanding and it isn't there. I will get over it. I am still in the hole. I haven't even been trying to climb out.
((Rose)))

It's a generalization, but with some truth, I think, but men sometimes seem to get frustrated when they can't "fix" something. And I don't think some of them "get" that when a woman turns to them for understanding, she might just want to be heard, not given advice. I know this is true of my husband. Sometimes my tears do just frustrate him.

I am sorry that he yelled at you. Wishing you some comfort and that you *will* begin to climb out of that hole.
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Thanks for this!
Rose76