I think most people have a problem letting their T be there for them. I've just commented on another post of yours and your T sounds awesome, like she really wants to help you. She also sounds like the T I have just finished with (not by choice). She said I need to let someone be there for me as I keep being there for everyone else. She wanted to be that person for me. It's kind of hard when they say things like that because, in my case, I didnt want to let her down. I wanted to let her be there for me. I just found it hard, and near impossible.
So the answer to your question is...I don't/didn't.
But don't give up on your T, I'm almost certain they don't want to give up on you