Maybe you can help me deceide where to go witht his... This is the second time my 18 year old son (after moving out of my house) has stated that he is having sexual dreams about me, and he is aroused by it and uses it later as material to self pleasure. I have even received photos from him... I try to tell him that it is due to the seperation from me. I tell him that maybe he should talk to someone, he says he is fine that I am attractive and he gets turned on by older women. Please help me help this situation. thanks