Dear Elizabeth,

I welcome your views on co-dependancy, I'm not offened in the least, i just want to get to the bottom of what ever it is that is happening. Unfortunatley I cannot get your link to work, can you send it again? I'm very interested to know what it says.

I think it would be easy for me to look at my situation and say he is the messed up, nutter, loon. but I must know what it is that has made me stay and what is in me that lets this perpetuate.

Laura x