Thanks for the comments everyone. I'm trying to sort through everything and answer all your questions.
Mom has no property or money. At all. I support her completely. We don't own a home. She has a lot of debt. That seems to be one of the reasons why no one will help.
She acts completely normal outside the home, and it's not like she has a fit at home every day. Months go by without any problems.
She doesn't drink.
She doesn't have a regular doctor right now. She lost her job a couple of years ago and with it the insurance. Guess what? It's almost impossible to get anyone to see her without it & ALL the social programs say she is too young to qualify & won't help.
Someone suggested that this may be early signs of dementia a while ago. She is way too young for that I would think, but who knows? When she did that to the kitchen, she just said she forgot what she was doing.