Thanks all for the great advice and support. I did call her back and sort of requested a call back, I'm trying. Now I wait to see if she responds. she is ususally very good about getting back with me if she interprets my message correctly. If I do not hear from her by tomorrow evening as she will be in a training tomorrow, I will call back and be more specific. This unresolved stuff is tearing me up inside and creating alot of anxiety.