rainbow8, I can hear how upsetting and frustrating this situation is for you. It sounds like you're not communucating as you'd like with your daughter. Sounds like she is stressed out too. what advice do you think your t would give you? some times I think we've internalized them (our t) more than we realize and some times we can draw on that for strenghth and advice when they are not with us. I hope your efforts help improve the situation for the rest of your visit.